Kegel exercises, also called pelvic floor exercises, strengthen your pelvic floor muscles. These muscles have many functions like supporting your uterus, bladder, small intestine, and rectum. Kegels keep the muscles fit and strong. They can even improve your orgasms and incontinence.
There are a number of ways to learn to feel and identify your pelvic floor muscles. The best way is to insert one or two lubricated fingers into your vagina, and then squeeze your pelvic floor muscles until you feel them tightening and lifting around your fingers. It can be a subtle sensation at first, but will become stronger and easier to identify as you practice. If you feel the muscles in your vagina tighten around your finger when you contract, you’re doing the exercise correctly.
If you are unsure whether you’ve found the right muscles, you can ask your health care provider to help you during your next pelvic exam, or ask for a referral to a Pelvic Floor Therapist for assistance. Once you’ve identified the muscles and can consciously tighten and relax them, you can do Kegels anywhere, any time. You may wish to occasionally insert a lubricated finger and contract so you can feel how your muscles are getting stronger. Some women like to use a specially designed tool—such as the Stone Exercise Egg or the Energie Exerciser—to help identify the muscles and strengthen them effectively. Another option is the Myself Pelvic Floor Trainer, a feedback tool that helps you exercise and relax the muscles correctly, showing your progress on a tiny computer screen. It’s particularly helpful if you aren’t sure that you’re contracting at all, or can’t tell if you’re making progress. If you use a tool in the beginning, you may choose to discontinue using it once your exercise routine is under way and you’re comfortable doing Kegels without it.
If you decide to use a tool when doing Kegels, you’ll also need a lubricant. It is recommended to use one that does not contain oil or glycerin, to minimize the possibility of irritation and prevent stickiness.
1. Lie down on your back in a comfortable place with your knees bent. Lying down takes the weight off your pelvic floor and leads to earlier success. Have your tool (if you are using one) and lubricant with you.
- If you’re using a tool, coat it with lubricant and insert it into your vagina until it comfortably slips into place just behind the pubic bone. You can’t push it in too far; it cannot get lost inside of you.
- If you’re using your finger(s), wash your hands first, then coat your finger(s) with lubricant. Next, insert your finger(s) about 2 inches into your vagina.
- You can also practice Kegels with nothing at all inside your vagina, or a hand placed on your perineum, to feel the muscle contract from the outside.
2. Contract your pelvic floor muscles. It will feel like you’re pulling up and in toward your belly button. Don’t push out, unless specifically advised by a health care provider. If you’re using a tool, you should feel it rise a bit. If you’re using your finger, you should feel a gentle tightening around the finger. Try to keep your leg, buttock, and abdominal muscles relaxed, and remember to breathe normally throughout the exercise.
3. Hold the muscle lift for a count of 5. If you’re using a tool, you can add resistance by pulling gently on it as you continue using your muscles to pull the tool inward and upward. Remember to breathe!
4. Relax your muscles.
5. IMPORTANT: After each contraction, take a deep belly breath. Inhale deeply and gently blow out the air while you relax your pelvis completely. This deep relaxation is just as important as the other steps, because the deep belly breath relaxes the muscles that are not under your conscious control.
6. Congratulations, you have just done one Kegel.
Important Points to Remember:
- If you forget to do your exercises for a few days, don’t fret—just get back to them when you get the chance.
- If you have any pain in your pelvis that feels worse while doing the exercise, STOP and contact your healthcare provider.
- If there’s no improvement in your symptoms after a month, contact a Pelvic Floor Therapist. It’s not uncommon to think you’re doing Kegels correctly but actually to be contracting buttock or abdominal muscles, or pushing out your pelvic floor muscles rather than pulling them up. If you think this might be the case, a Pelvic Floor Therapist can help you maximize your efforts.
Q. How many kegels should I do every day?
A. Start out doing 2 sets of 5 twice a day, holding each contraction for 5 seconds. Gradually increase the length of the hold until you can hold it for 10 seconds. Next, increase the number you do each time until you can do 2 sets of 10, holding each for 10 seconds. It would go like this: contract and hold for 10 seconds (breathing normally), and then relax for 10 seconds (taking a deep belly breath). Repeat the sequence until you’ve completed 10 exercises. Rest for a few minutes and then do another set of 10 in the same way. Repeat this sequence again later in the day.
Q. But I read I should do 100 kegels really fast. Why do you recommend only 5-10?
A. The pelvic floor is made up of two kinds of muscle fibers: slow-twitch (70%) and fast-twitch (30%). Slow-twitch fibers respond best to slow, step-by-step engagement like the holds we have described. If you only do fast Kegels, you’re not strengthening the majority of the muscle fibers. That’s why it’s important to learn to do the Kegel “hold” as described above. The other 30% of muscle fibers are important too, so we recommend that once you’re comfortable with the Kegel “hold,” you learn Kegel “flicks.”
To do these, tighten your pelvic floor muscles the same way as before but more quickly, then relax. The entire cycle should take about 3 seconds; you should breathe normally and keep the rest of your body relaxed throughout. Do about 20 twice a day, and finish the set with a deep belly-breath.
Doing too many too fast will overwork the muscles and lead to poor technique that could compromise your progress or lead to other problems.
Q. Once I have my routine of two sets of 10 kegel “holds” and 20 “flicks,” how should I progress from there?
A. If you began by using a tool, now is the time to learn to contract your pelvic floor muscles without the tool. It’s important to learn to exercise without it; you’ll want to do your exercises in different positions and during various activities to progress further. Once you’ve mastered holding for 10 seconds without the tool and without involving your buttock or abdominal muscles while lying down, the next step is to do your exercises sitting up. Once you can hold for 10 seconds sitting up, still using good technique (not involving other muscles, remaining relaxed, breathing normally) you may do them while standing. After that, you can do your exercises while you do functional tasks like lifting, walking up stairs, jumping, etc. It’s important to make sure you are able to contract and relax your pelvic floor muscles without involving other muscles in your body, and while breathing normally, so don’t rush the process! Guidance from a professional can help you be sure you’re doing Kegels correctly before moving to the next level.
If you want to try some advanced exercises, you can use a tool to add weight or resistance while you do your exercises. Once you have mastered lying down, holding for 10 seconds with the tool inserted, and without involving other muscles, the next step is to hold the outside end of the Kegel tool with your hand and pull gently outward on it, using your pelvic floor muscles to hold the tool in. Once you can hold for 10 seconds, still using good technique (not involving other muscles, remaining relaxed, breathing normally), you can do this while standing. If you’re using the Exercise Egg, the weight of the egg itself will offer resistance.
If you wish to go further, you can put coins in the egg’s storage pouch, and hang it from the string attached to the egg. Add more coins to increase the weight.
Q. I heard that to learn kegels, I should try to stop the flow while I’m urinating. Is that true?
A. Purposely stopping the flow of urine can be uncomfortable, lead to urethral irritation, and “confuse” the bladder, making it harder to completely empty when you urinate. It is not recommended.
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